Sunday, May 20, 2018

Spring Adventures


This spring has been filled with adventurous activity, at least by 2 and 4 year old standards.


While we were in Pennsylvania for Easter, we made a trip to the Tyler Arboretum, a favorite place of my childhood.


They currently have a series of tree houses spaced throughout the woods.


Jason loved the one that was built in the shape of a guitar with musical instruments on the walls inside.


Sophia was helpful with the ones that required climbing.


It was a joyful way to welcome in spring after a long winter.


Almost all of the house components are made from natural materials, including tunnel entrances.


We were glad Uncle James was able to take the day off work to spend it with us.


Our next spring adventure, was a return to the cold, with Sophia's first time on ice skates.


The Friends of Foster Care sponsored this wonderful event for foster families.


A new friend very patiently helped Sophia, until she was moving across the rink on her own.


Jason was not interested in trying on skates and much preferred to drive the Zamboni.


Also sponsored by the Friends of Foster Care, was a day at Furnace Brook Farm Therapeutic Riding.


We had gotten a photo of Sophia on top of a pony about three years ago, but this was the first time she really rode.


She also had an opportunity to feed and groom some horses.


I have always loved these gentle giants and it was wonderful to see my children interact with them.


On to more adventures!

Sunday, May 6, 2018

Jason's Adoption Party

Ten days after we left the courthouse, we celebrated Jason's adoption with neighbors, family, and friends from as far as Colorado, Indiana, Pennsylvania, New York, Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, Connecticut and as near as walking distance from the building. We wish you all could have been there!



Jason's adoption is about adding, his name begins with those given to him by his birth mother before Archambault was added and his body continues to flow with the blood of a father and mother that are not Joshua or I. 
We celebrated with Ecuadorian music coming from the speakers and pictures of his birth mother in the slide show of his first 2 1/2 years of life. Our hope is that we will be able to sustain a relationship with his mother and connect with his father and half-siblings.
Jason's Speech Therapist
Trains are Jason's current favorite and his Aunt Aimee and our friend Kim brought the theme to life with tables turned into steam engines, railroad tracks, a photo booth with train props, and a train car buffet table. The train shirt he wore was mine as a child.
A train running alongside one wall displayed some of our favorite quotes about adoption, such as:
"In adoption, a child is not given up. A birth mother gives life, she gives a part of her heart that will never feel whole. And the adoptive mother gives her life to the child, as well as a part of her heart to another mother."- Tevva Cooper
Sophia singing "Happy Adoption" to her brother
"Adoption has the dimension of connection - not only to your own tribe, but beyond, widening the scope of what constitutes love, ties, and family. It is a larger embrace. By adopting, we stretch past our immediate circles and, by reaching out, find an unexpected sense of belonging with others."-Isabella Rossellini
It has been said that adoption is more like a marriage than a birth: two (or more) individuals, each with their own unique mix of needs, patterns and genetic history, coming together with love, hope, and commitment for a joint future. You become a family not because you share the same genes, but because you share the same love for each other." -Joan McNamara
"Family not only need to consist of merely those whom we share blood, but also those for whom we'd give blood." -Charles Dickens
"He is hers in a way that he will never be mine, he is mine in a way that he will never be hers, and together, we are his mothers."- Desha Wood

We are thankful to everyone for bringing food to share, to the decorators and party planners. To Alison and Ross MacDonald for the 4 ft letters with lights from their company DorisLoves USA. To Ashley Ringius for the cake (Each tier with one of his names, the first three given to him by his Mom and the bottom one with Archambault) and Melissa Fuccillo with Lovelifepics.com. We are fortunate to have such creative and generous friends.

 

Sunday, April 22, 2018

Jason's Dedication

Jason, with thanksgiving we dedicate you to the Lord of life.  May the Lord bless you and keep you. The Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you.  The Lord lift up the light of his countenance upon you and give you peace. Amen.
“Then little children were being brought to him in order that he might lay his hands on them and pray.  The disciples spoke sternly to those who brought them; but Jesus said:  ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs.’  And he laid his hands on them and went on his way.”  (Luke 19:13-15)
And so, in the spirit of Jesus, we celebrate children as a gift of God, and affirm that they belong to God before they belong to us.  Parents, especially, have the privilege of enjoying this great gift, but also bear the responsibility of caring for this precious gift. In as much as our children belong to God and are given by grace as gifts to parents, it is only proper and appropriate that our children be dedicated to God, and that we pray for the hand of God to be upon these parents throughout the journey of their child’s upbringing.
 In the book of Acts (Acts 17: 24-28) the Apostle Paul addresses these words to the followers of Jesus in Athens: “The God who made the world and everything in it is the Lord of heaven and earth and does not live in temples built by human hands. And he is not served by human hands, as if he needed anything. Rather, he himself gives everyone life and breath and everything else. From one ancestor he made all the nations, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he marked out their appointed times in history and the boundaries of their lands. God did this so that they would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from any one of us. ‘For in him we live and move and have our being.’ As some of your own poets have said, ‘We are his offspring.’”
 Our children belong to God, and are entrusted into our hands for but a season.  Parents have the tremendous opportunity to witness it all, and the great responsibility to guide this process.
Elizabeth and Joshua bring their son Jason, presenting first themselves and then their son before the Lord our God. Accompanying them in making this commitment are Jason's godparents, Glen and Carolyn Thompson.
Liz and Josh, you have brought your precious son before this congregation to consecrate him to the Lord.  As you love God, one another, Jason and his sister Sophia, you will model before Jason the love of God. Do you this day acknowledge that Jason belongs first and foremost to the Lord our God? So that Jason may walk in the abundant life that Christ offers, do you Liz and Josh, vow to the best of your ability, with God's help and in partnership with the church, to provide Jason a home of love and peace, to nurture him in the love of God, and to raise him in the truth of our Lord? Will you encourage Jason to grow in faith and loyalty to God, so that he might later be received into the fellowship of the church by baptism?
It has been said that “it takes a village.”  Modeling this kind of love requires the help of others. For this reason, Liz and Josh call upon the help of Glen and Carolyn. Glen and Carolyn, not only do you, who stand with this young family today, thoroughly enjoy and help nurture this precious child in your own unique way, you also support his parents through the wonder-filled and sometimes frustrating process of parenting. Will you pledge to help Liz and Josh fulfill the vow they have just made as Jason's godparents, and to love Jason and his parents through these years, to uphold them in prayer, and to invest in Jason's spiritual growth?
Finally, I ask that the church make a vow as well. This room is full of many hearts and hands whom God has drawn together into a family of faith. Within the church of Jesus Christ, no parent stands alone, no child is without many spiritual aunts and uncles, sisters and brothers. We are here to help bear this awesome responsibility of raising children, and to encourage this child to walk by faith. God did not intend families to go it alone in this world, so I ask you who are gathered here to take seriously your responsibility. Will you accept the call to be a community of faith to this child and his parents so that Jason may walk in the abundant life that Christ offers?
Dear Lord, we are filled with joy, and yet, we are also mindful of the awesome responsibility you have given to us: For we are imperfect parents living within an imperfect world, in need of your comforting Word to us, in need of the assurance of your Spirit, and in need of a believing community. During the time we are granted with Jason, grant us your guidance, comfort, and assurance. This we ask in your Name. Amen.
Having heard and shared the commitments made by Liz and Josh, and Glen and Carolyn, let us commend them and Jason in prayer to the gracious keeping of the God “in whom we live and move and have our being.”Most gracious and ever loving God, with these parents and this child, we give ourselves this day to uphold him with your love, to teach him your Word, and to encourage him in times of failure and rejoice with him in times of success.  Give to these parents the special graces of insight and love that this child may grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with you and the whole human community. Grant that we your people may truly be a household of faith for this child, providing him with food for the spirit to nourish him through the years of his growth into maturity.  This we pray in the name of Christ our Lord. Amen.
The pictures were taken by our dear friend Melissa Fuccillo from www.lovelifepics.com and the Dedication was officiated by Jason's Grandfather, Reverend Dr. C. Raymond Trout.
Jason began the service asleep, but fortunately woke up just in time for his dedication.

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Easter 2018



Two weeks after Jason's adoption, we boarded the plane to celebrate Easter in Pennsylvania.
It is my Mom's favorite holiday and there is truly nothing greater to celebrate than Resurrection that brings redemption and new life.
The bunny ears and egg hunts are optional but also fun.

Jason is not a fan of the human sized bunnies that move but was willing to greet this giant stationary one.
He insisted on inspecting the contents of each egg prior to putting it into his grandfather's caddy bag.
He was delighted by what he found inside each time.
Sophia's strategy was to stick close to the bunny who as the supposed hider of the eggs would likely know where they could be found.
Easter morning brought even more treats that are now being rationed piece by piece as lunch, dinner and sometimes breakfast dessert.
The cross is covered with flowers. Death now blooms with life!
Nada's nursing home party preparations included Joshua and Sophia filling the jar for the jelly bean guessing game.
Nada made sure her husband Bone was able to jointly give Sophia and Jason Easter presents by moving his hand with hers. 
Easter reminds us to live with hope and give thanks for forgiveness!

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